You reap what you sow. This is true in most areas of life.
How we invest in our health shows in our energy level. What we invest in our education (formal or non) shows in our ability to influence, understand and lead. What we invest in our hobbies is evident in our ability to enjoy them.
Sex is no different.
If you treat sex as a chore that must be done in marriage, and never invest in making it awesome, it will feel like a dreaded chore. If, on the other hand, you invest in sex like you invest in your health, your education, or your hobbies, you will see that it grows, develops and becomes a place of out-of-this-world joy, connection and pleasure.
Buying books and reading them together is one great way to invest in your sex life.
We need a RE-WIRING on the whole sex conversation in our culture. Because sex is not only about sex.
Sex is about oneness, connection and calling. –> click to tweet.
It’s about the connection in marriage that leads to unity and the ability to thrive in our life-purpose as a couple.
Great connection through sex doesn’t happen on accident. We have to intentionally invest time and energy into learning to love one another well in the privacy of our marriage.
Here are 3 sex books I recommend.
Sheet Music by Kevin Leman
Intended for Pleasure by Ed and Gaye Wheat
Intimacy Ignited: Conversations Couple to Couple (Fire Up Your Sex Life with The Song of Solomon) By Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus
- What My Marriage Can’t Live Without
- Your NO Is Her Hope: How Porn Is Losing Its Grip
- Building An Awesome Marriage With the Material of Time
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