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Want a hot-sex Bible verse?

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.  In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 2:3-5

This verse is profound to me as I’m talking about re-setting my sex life and upping my game as a wife.


Crazy as it seems…

The hottest sex comes as I take the place of a selfless servant.

The deepest intimacy grows from a place of humble love. (CLICK TO TWEET)

The most profound connection develops when I think and act on behalf of my husbands needs before my own.

I believe God wants me to love and serve my husband in abundant and radical ways, in ways that build him up, especially in the bedroom.

So this Valentine’s Month, I’m taking these verses to heart, and am focusing my energy on his needs.

If this is what I’m doing to take my wife game to the next level, there are some profound questions I have to ask myself.

  • How can I be sexually available more often, with a “yes” attitude that doesn’t indicate inconvenience?
  • How many times a week can I “initiate” when he least expects it?
  • Where can I get more resources to become an out-of-this world lover to my husband?

Here’s an online resource – The Marriage Bed and the best sex books I’ve read are listed here.